Life With Dolapo

  Do you ever feel lost in yourself  Unable to find the threads that connects self  Have you ever felt like you’d never be enough  Just worth a couple valuables but never the gold ? Do you ever feel like you’re just moments from  Creating a mess out of the good around you? And have you ever felt like no one would understand  So you just keep your thoughts to yourself? I know So I've come to tell you  Sometimes the days are not bright- The sky clouds littered  Sometimes the days are chilly The skin goosebumped  Sometimes you just have no energy left  The body bed lagged It’s not everyday the crown seats right  Doesn’t mean you've got no crown  Your crown just need some adjusting  Queen  King  Keep going  There's good on the other side of bad. Ifedolapo

  In today's world, there is a powerful drive to make significant strides and become a notable presence. As a result, we observe an increase in individuals engaging in various activities to gain visibility or attention.  This phenomenon encompasses both commendable actions as well as regrettable or needless behaviors especially on social media. It reflects the current era, characterized by a growing awareness and appreciation of the potency and influence of individual and collective voices.  Witnessing this awakening is truly remarkable, but to stay relevant in these evolving times, it is essential to conduct a personal reevaluation of our motivations and sources of inspiration to form a propellant for the message we want to amplify least our voice be lost in the multitude of voices. I leave you today with a few thought-provoking questions. If you had the ability to effect positive change in the world, what aspect would you prioritize changing? Furthermore, what specific ...

  Healing begins with  Recognizing the necessity to heal  From pain and its haunting memories. Its first seeds are implanted from a choice  “I choose to let go” “I choose to heal from the fact that I was hurt” But most wounded individuals walk around With band-aids over festering wounds Often times sporting plastic smiles and loud laughs  Unlike the quiet melancholy usually associated with a troubled mind As they try to project a false sense of wellness When all is truly not well.  They’re hurting real bad  Under the surface Sometimes more than they know. The only evidence seen is the ripple effects of their trauma manifesting as Newly found or amplified self insufficiency  Self sabotage  An inability to commit  Or a commit and fail  Pessimism An abnormal need to be alone An intense need NEVER to be alone And volatile, fiery, UNCONTROLLABLE emotions. They need courage to confront their hurt  But courage supposedly found within...