What are you Choosing ?

 

The gap between desires and reality is time and decisions. There's no one of rid of desires- mudane or extraordinary. Even the will to see or to do is a choice. I'll give examples. 

If I want to be a renowned writer, I've to take actions that reflect my interest in being a maestro at my craft. Like writing consistently, learning about writing and putting myself out there. 

If I also want to keep an healthy weight, my food choices would have to be deliberate. I will make an effort not to jump on the joy ride of a sugar overdrive at the slightest convenience. Rather eating a balanced diet and incorporating a form of exercise into my schedule will be my go to.

To become a better friend, I'll have to understand myself and be a better person because I know my understanding of love first demonstrated to myself overflows into my friendships. 

With all that being said, beware, indecision is a choice. What you're not changing, you're choosing. Don't let it be that your decisions happened to you. Take active control of what you want for yourself starting from making the decision to share this post with someone today. 

Toodles

Ifedolapo